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Happy Thanksgiving!

THANKSGIVING COMES IN TWO PARTS: THANKS AND GIVING 

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Just look at the word Thanksgiving. Part of it is about 'thanks' and the other part about 'giving'. Let’s keep that in mind. 

Dear Friends,

Lots to be thankful for this Thanksgiving. Tough times bring our priorities back into proper focus and help us appreciate life’s little things, the blessings we often take for granted. Most importantly, they remind us of the people in our lives.

We are grateful to be surrounded by the most amazing community of people imaginable, the beautiful Chabad Naples family.

Thank you for being you. Thank you for being part of the beautiful Chabad Naples family. Thank you for bringing light, offering support, and sharing your friendship.

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We hope that you are able to spend time with your family and reflect on what it means to give thanks not only today, but every day.

Take time to think on the good things in life and be grateful for them. Gratitude is one of the most importance Jewish traits - we start our day with Modeh Ani, thanking Hashem for another day.

As one of Judaism’s central objectives is to help us find gratitude. We start every day with spiritual therapy, conditioning our minds and attitudes to feeling gratitude for our blessings.

Too often, we spend too much of our energy worrying about our challenges. Our problems seem to obstruct our larger field of vision. It’s as though our troubles were physically confronting us nose-to-nose, thereby eclipsing the broader – fortunate – context of our lives. Judaism wants us to take a step back and recognize the truth of our lives, the fact that we have a mosaic of wonderful blessings sprinkled with real challenges.

And that’s empowering. When we process the enormity of our blessings, we’re better positioned to tackle the rough edges, the challenges.

While every day should be devoted to giving thanks, there’s something beautiful in society choosing a day to emphasize it. As we approach this national holiday of Thanksgiving, as we think about the things in our lives for which we are grateful, we feel especially blessed and grateful to be part of a wonderful community, here in Naples. May we all continue to share our blessings with others and be there to support each other as an expression of our gratitude.

We hope you enjoy the Thanksgiving weekend and Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Fishel & Ettie Zaklos

Together, for a Brighter World!

Dear Friends,

This past weekend, I had the privilege of joining 6,224 fellow Chabad rabbis from 100 nations around the globe, at the International Conference of Chabad rabbis in New York, also known as "the Kinus" (Kinus in Hebrew means "get together"). We gathered from around the world, in a moment of connection, and prayer to God, for our families, communities, and the world at large.

Among the faces of friends and family, was a shared purpose: to illuminate the world with Torah, mitzvot, and unconditional love. What made it all the more special was that Yitzi joined me, making the weekend even more meaningful. And here’s a picture of the two of us from 2015. Time truly flies.

Returning home, I couldn’t help but reflect on how appropriate it is that in this week’s Torah portion, Toldot, we read about the blessings that Isaac gave his son Jacob, before Jacob headed out to start a family of his own: “May you become an assembly of peoples.”

This is similar to the instructions we are given as Chabad Rabbis, to build and grow our communities wherever they may be. And this is indeed what we strive to do every day. But it’s not only for Chabad rabbis, this is a universal call. Each of us has the ability to bring people together, to gather others, and to make them feel part of a larger family, spreading connection, love, and belonging wherever we go.

Every one of us is a Shliach, a messenger from Heaven with a message for Earth. We operate as extensions of G-d's light, sent to illuminate the darkness of the world.

Sooner or later, every one of us awakens to the reality that our mission here is far greater than ourselves, and that the purpose of our life is more important to us than life itself. We feel that G-d sent us to do good here. We feel a sense of responsibility, a calling to not merely live out our years in comfort and then hand in the keys but to accomplish something, to make a difference. Another Mitzvah, another kind word, another embrace. It's our mission.

We're all Shluchim. You, me, and everyone. 

From the grand banquet to quiet conversations with lifelong friends, this weekend has recharged and reinvigorated us. As we enter Kislev—the month of miracles—we prepare to share the light of Chanukah with our respective communities worldwide and tap into the blessings of this special time. I feel honored to bring this inspiration back to Naples and look forward to continuing to bring light wherever it is needed. I also look forward to sharing some of the highlights of the Chabad conference with you at Shul tomorrow.

With Chanukah already on the horizon, we can’t wait to celebrate the Grand Chanukah Festival together, titled Around the Globe.

The event is always spectacular, but trust me, this year’s event is going to be bigger and better than ever.

So mark your calendars and get ready to celebrate the miracle of Chanukah with us. RSVP today now at ChabadNaples.com/chanukah. We are looking for sponsors, as your support is essential to making this event possible. If you would like to bring light and blessings to our entire community, please call 239-262-4474 or email: [email protected]

Let’s light up the night together! We look forward to seeing you at the Grand Chanukah Festival!

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Fishel & Ettie Zaklos

Great Leaders Create Leaders

Dear Friends,

Hello from chilly New York!

This weekend the International Conference of Chabad Rabbis is convening in Crown Heights, Brooklyn and it is guaranteed to be a uniquely powerful experience.

Thousands unite to share and learn, participating in stimulating workshops and programs over four days with a gala banquet planned for Sunday evening. It is truly one of the most inspirational environments and a privilege to be present.

A plethora of ideas and goals will be verbalized and internalized. A record number is attending this year, more than 6,000 rabbis and communal leaders from 100 nations around the world. The mind boggles!

And when I walk around, I keep hearing, “Oh yes, we’ve heard of the world-famous Chabad of Naples!” So kudos to each and every one of you for being part of this amazing family.

While I am here, I will have the opportunity to visit the Rebbe’s resting place and will be humbled to pray on behalf of my valued community and family. It is a Jewish tradition to visit the resting place of a saintly person with the heartfelt wish that he join our prayers to the Almighty, for blessings for ourselves and our loved ones.

It would be my honor to include you and your loved ones in my prayers on this day. If you would like me to include a special prayer, please please fill out this form with your name and your mother's name (preferably the Hebrew or Yiddish names), and those of anyone else you would like me to mention, I would be glad to have them in mind as well. If there's a specific need you would like me to pray for, please mention it as well.

We’ll gather from around the world in a moment of connection and prayer to God for our families, for our community, and for the world at large. What words come to mind? Powerful, inspirational, energizing and spiritual.

Here’s a short thought:

I remember when Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, of blessed memory, was the keynote speaker at the Chabad Conference, and he shared the following.

He spoke about his encounters with the Rebbe and the tremendous impact they had on his life.

“Good leaders create followers; great leaders create leaders,” he said.

Rabbi Sacks was a living testament to that. After graduating, he was considering a career in economy, law, or philosophy, and he sought the Rebbe’s advice.

But the Rebbe had a different suggestion: he should become a rabbi.

The rest is history.

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Here is the thing about leadership:

Most people feel that it’s simply out of reach. They believe you need specific qualifications or abilities, that you must be on a higher level than everyone else.

The Rebbe taught us that this is not the case.

He encouraged us to look past fear, past self-doubt, past the quiet inner voice that says, “Who am I to make a difference?”

Instead, he urged us to see ourselves for what we truly are: natural-born leaders, endowed by G-d with the ability to influence, uplift, teach, and inspire those around us.

We can, and we should, be leaders. We just need to be willing.

“Do you know an Alef? Teach an Alef” the Rebbe would say. Don’t say “oh, I know just an Alef” or “maybe I should wait until I learned also Bet and Gimel”. Even if you know one letter in the Torah, you already have enough to be a leader and teach those who don’t know it yet.

So regardless of our “official” titles or occupations, let us each embrace this privilege and responsibility of leadership. It can be as simple as becoming a positive influence in your circle, standing up against antisemitism, sharing a word of Torah, offering encouragement to someone who is struggling, or bringing another Jew a little closer to their heritage. Not only do they uplift others, we transform ourselves and help move the world toward what it is meant to be: a world of peace, harmony, and blessings.

In my absence on Shabbat, Rabbi Levi Chanowitz will lead the services, and thank you to Matthew Wayne for sponsoring the Kiddush.

Shabbat Shalom with Love & Light,

Rabbi Fishel & Ettie Zaklos

When You Walk In, You Feel at Home

Dear Friends,

There’s something deeply human about the desire to be seen, cared for, and to feel that we belong. In a world that often feels hurried or impersonal, finding a place where your presence is noticed and your soul feels at home is rare. That’s where Abraham and Sarah come in.

The Torah tells us that Abraham interrupted a direct encounter with G-d to notice and then rush toward three travelers approaching his tent. He made sure they were seen, welcomed, and immediately cared for, so they wouldn’t feel uncomfortable waiting to be acknowledged. Together with Sarah, he served them the finest food, not something convenient or leftover, but the very best they had.

Even after the meal, Abraham accompanied his guests as they departed. This final act reinforced that their presence had been genuinely valued and appreciated.

True hospitality is about meeting someone’s needs, but also about uplifting their spirit, making them feel wanted, appreciated, and truly at home.

Whenever we are in a position to host or assist another person, let’s be sure that, in addition to addressing their need, we go the extra mile to ensure their dignity is intact and that we leave them feeling uplifted in the process.

This timeless lesson of hospitality continues to inspire the heart of our community at Chabad of Naples. Every smile, every shared moment, and every act of kindness reflects the beauty of belonging. When you walk in, you feel at home, and long after, even decades later, your name will be remembered and your spirit uplifted.

Come and join us this Shabbat and every Shabbat whether it is for the Barchu prayer at 10:30 or the Torah reading at 11 or for lunch at 12:15. There is also the adult education course on Monday, the Rachamah event, the Hanukkah festival, and so much more. There is always a place for you, a warm welcome, and a home for your spirit. 

 With love and blessings,

Rabbi Fishel & Ettie Zaklos

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