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Who told you you’re small?

Fri, 12 Jun 2026 9:35:00 AM

Dear Friends,

There is a certain way a person behaves when they feel small.

The shoulders bend a little. The voice becomes quieter. The eyes look down. Even before anyone says anything, the person has already started imagining what everyone else must be thinking.

We have all experienced this in some way. A person walks into a room and assumes they do not belong. A student looks at a challenge and decides they are not capable. A Jew sees the world around them and wonders, “Wouldn’t it be safer to stand a little smaller, speak a little softer, hide a little more?”

But this week’s Torah portion reminds us that how we see ourselves matters.

The Torah tells us about the spies who were sent to scout the Land of Israel. These were not ordinary people. They were leaders and people of stature. Each chosen to represent their tribes and bring back a report. And yet, when they returned, they said something very revealing.

“We were like grasshoppers in our own eyes, and so we were in their eyes.”

That part we can understand. They were frightened. They felt small. They looked at the fortified cities and the powerful people and they lost confidence.

But then they added, “and so we were in their eyes.” How did they know what the people of the land thought of them?

The answer is that they didn’t really know. They were speaking from their own fear. Because when a person sees themselves as small, they begin to believe that everyone else sees them that way too. Since they saw themselves as grasshoppers, they assumed the world saw them as grasshoppers as well.

That was the mistake of the spies. Not that they saw giants. Rather, that they forgot who sent them. They forgot that they were not going on their own strength alone. They were sent by God. They were part of a Divine mission. And when you know Who sent you, you do not have to see yourself as a grasshopper.

This is about quiet strength and faith. It is about feeling fear and still remembering that each of us was placed in this world with purpose.

Every person has a mission. Every soul has something only it can bring into the world. A kindness only you can give. A mitzvah only you can do. A corner of the world that needs the strength, warmth, and light that God gave specifically to you.

We all know the first words we say when we wake up: Modeh Ani. We thank Hashem for returning our soul to us.

But our Sages also teach us something else about the way we begin the day. We are told to rise with strength, like a lion, to serve our Creator. Not like a grasshopper. Like a lion.

Waking up is not only about our faith in God. It is also a reminder that God has faith in us. If He gave me another morning, another breath, another day, then there is something He wants from me today.

When we remember that, we carry ourselves differently. We speak with more courage. We live with more purpose.

This is also why a birthday is so meaningful. A birthday is not only a day to receive good wishes. It is a day to ask: why was I born? What is the mission God placed in my hands? What more can I give? What more can I become?

My Hebrew birthday was this week, and it gave me the opportunity to go to the Rebbe’s Ohel for a few hours and reflect on this very question.

The Rebbe taught us again and again that every person is here with purpose. Every Jew has a mission. We are not meant to see ourselves as small. We are meant to stand tall, with humility, with faith, and with the knowledge that God placed us here for a reason.

From there, I went to Washington, DC, to spend a day at the Living Legacy conference, honoring the Rebbe’s legacy ahead of his anniversary of passing this coming Thursday. It was powerful to see leaders, senators, congresspeople, and public officials from across the aisle speak about the Rebbe, about his vision, and about the impact he continues to have on the world.

But one moment stood out deeply.

Yechiel Leiter, Israel’s ambassador to the United States, addressed the gathering. He is a man who has known tremendous personal pain. His son, Moshe, was killed in Gaza. And yet, as he stood there, what came through was not weakness. It was strength. Conviction. Faith. Responsibility. A sense that even after loss, there is still a mission. He spoke with the poise of someone who knows what he stands for.

That image stayed with me. Because now more than ever, we need that kind of posture. As Jews, parents, friends, and members of a community. As human beings.

We cannot walk through life hunched over, doubting whether we matter, wondering if we have permission to make a difference.

Our families, our communities, and our mission need us to stand with humility and strength.

God asks us to be humble, yes. But humility does not mean thinking we are nothing. True humility means knowing that whatever strength we have was given to us by God, and therefore must be used.

So much of our fear comes from imagined eyes. What will they think? What will they say? How will they see me? That was the mistake of the spies. Since they saw themselves as grasshoppers, they believed the world saw them that way too.

But the Torah teaches us to begin somewhere else. Begin with how God sees us.

God sees souls with purpose. People capable of courage, growth, kindness, and holiness. People who can enter the world as partners in making it better.

So this week, let us ask ourselves: Where have I been seeing myself as too small? Where is God asking me to stand taller, speak with more courage, and live with more purpose?

We are the children of God. We are sent with a mission. We are given another morning, another breath, another opportunity to bring goodness into the world.

May we see ourselves the way God sees us. May we stand tall in our purpose, strong in our values, and proud in our Judaism. And may we use the mission we have been given to bring more light, strength, and goodness to ourselves, our families, our community, Israel, and the entire world.

With faith, resilience, and all the blessings,

Rabbi Fishel and Ettie Zaklos

Carry Light. Give Water.

Fri, 5 Jun 2026 10:06:00 AM

Dear Friends,

A person can carry many things. Some things we carry in our pockets. Some things we carry in our hearts. Some things we carry for ourselves, and some things we carry for others.

A child can happily carry a dirty pebble found outside, a small toy, or a piece of candy discovered at the bottom of a backpack. To an adult, it may look like nothing. But to the child, it has value. Not because of what it costs. Rather, because it was noticed and chosen, it became something worth holding onto.

As we get older, the things we carry change.

We carry a smartphone, keys, a wallet, and two to three types of glasses. These are useful, necessary things. Things whose value has already been decided for us and marked in ink on a price tag. But the Torah reminds us, especially as we get older, that there is another kind of value. Beyond what something costs, the value of what it can do. A small match may not be worth much in a store. But in the right moment, it can bring light, warmth, and life.

And this week, the Torah reminds us that every Jew carries that kind of power.

The Torah speaks about the lighting of the Menorah. Aharon is commanded to raise the flames. Not simply to light them, but to lift each flame until it can burn on its own.

At first glance, we may think this mission belongs only to Aharon. He was the Kohen Gadol. He lit the Menorah in the Mishkan. He served in the holiest place on behalf of the Jewish people.

But the Rebbe often taught that the message of the Menorah belongs to every one of us. Every Jew is a flame. Every soul has its own G-d-given purpose, its own color, its own movement, its own way of bringing light into the world.

No two flames are the same. Some people bring light through generosity. Some through wisdom. Some through friendship. Some through quiet kindness. Some through strength. Some through warmth. Some through simply making another person feel seen.

And that is why every Jew, regardless of title, is entrusted with light. Because each of us meets people along the way. A neighbor. A friend. A family member. A stranger. Someone who needs a kind word, a listening ear, a gentle smile. Each one is a reminder that every person matters.

The question is not only what we carry for ourselves. The question is whether we realize what we carry for others.

This past week, our community lost two special people, each one a light in his own way.

Our dear friend and member of Chabad Naples, Stanley Star, passed away on Thursday night. As a rabbi, there are moments of great joy, and there are moments that are deeply difficult. There are lifecycle events filled with celebration, and there are moments when we sit with families in their pain and try to be present.

I traveled to New York to be with his family and officiate Stanley’s funeral. The service was scheduled to begin at 10 o’clock, but it did not begin until nearly an hour later. There were lines and lines of people coming to pay their respects. Firefighters, friends, neighbors, community members, one person after another, each one carrying a story of how Stanley had touched their life. It was incredibly powerful to see.

Stanley was a man of generosity, a philanthropist, a person known and respected in his community in Fredonia, New York, and here in Naples as well. Together with his wife, Elizabeth, he touched many lives. But more than what he accomplished, people spoke about who he was.

He had a way of making people feel seen and valued. His employees spoke about how he treated them like family. With dignity and respect. No matter his success, he remained approachable and real. And even long after he had stepped away, many of them still came, years later, to pay their respects.

That says something powerful about a person. How he lifted others and strengthened a community. How he used what he had to bring warmth, support, and dignity to those around him.

Stanley understood what it meant to carry light.

We also remember Paul Kane, who passed away at the age of 99. He lived just a few doors away from Chabad, and over the years he became very dear to us.

About seven years ago, Paul celebrated his first Bar Mitzvah. He was 93 years old! Imagine that. A man later in life, still growing, still reaching, still connecting, still adding light.

And he did not stop there.

Even nearing 100, he was still going to the gym. I would sometimes meet him there. We would sit together. We would talk for a long time. We connected, and in fact, we spoke just before Shavuot. Our children would visit and bring him challah. He was warm. He was present. He had a glow about him.

Stanley and Paul lived very different lives. They gave in different ways. But each one carried something precious.

Stanley carried generosity, responsibility, and a heart for the community. Paul carried warmth, friendship, and the energy and inspiring curiosity of someone decades younger. Each one, in his own way, was both a flame and a lamplighter.

And that is the lesson for all of us.

There is an old thought: a person can build a monument, or a person can dig a well.

A monument may stand through the test of time. It may even be beautiful. But a well gives water. It nourishes people. It continues to help others live and grow long after the one who dug it is gone.

That is the difference between asking the world to remember us and giving the world something it can carry forward.

Let us be well diggers. Let us live in a way that nourishes others, bringing warmth where there is loneliness, encouragement where there is doubt, and light where there is darkness.

So this week, let us ask ourselves: what do we carry with us?

Do we carry patience? Kindness? The courage to call someone, visit someone, encourage someone, forgive someone, help someone? Do we carry a mitzvah ready to be shared? Every day, Hashem places someone in our path whose flame we can help lift.

May the neshamas of Stanley Star and Paul Kane have an aliyah. May their families be comforted. And may each of us honor their memory by becoming lamplighters in our own way, not living for monuments, but digging wells, nourishing others with warmth, goodness, and light.

With faith, resilience, and all the blessings,

Rabbi Fishel and Ettie Zaklos

The world counts followers. G-d counts souls.

Fri, 29 May 2026 11:23:00 AM

Dear Friends,

We are now studying the Book of Numbers, which details a census that is taken of the Children of Israel during their time in the Sinai desert.

It is an often-overlooked passage in the Torah that gives us pause. Did Moses have nothing better to do with his time than counting more than half a million people?

Yet, that is precisely what the Torah is saying:

There is nothing better to do with one's time than count G-d's children. For in the eyes of G-d, counting individuals is far more than keeping score; it is, rather, His way of telling each and every one of His children: "You matter to Me. Deeply. You're not just a number. You're on My speed-dial."

I often think of that woman who came to the Rebbe for a blessing and a dollar. When her turn came, she said: Rebbe, I have been standing in line for just one hour and I’m exhausted, yet you stand here for hours – how don’t you get tired? The Rebbe smiled: “Every Jew is a diamond. And when you count diamonds, you never become tired.”

Each of us was created in the image of G-d. When we strip away the many layers that divide us, at our core we are all equally worthy and have intrinsic value and purpose.

This is the deeper meaning of the Torah portion’s opening words, “Naso es rosh” — to lift up the head. Our mission is to lift one another up, especially in times like these, and help every person recognize their infinite worth.

We must remember to look around us and ensure that we are counting each and every person in our community. Each individual is important, each person counts. Nobody’s contribution is insignificant. No person should ever feel worthless; each of us has a part to play in the greater scheme of things, and each of us counts. When we love our neighbor as ourselves, when we truly see each other as equals, we can restore the bridges that connect us to one another with goodness.

If you feel that someone has counted you out – I am here to tell you that they simply can’t count.

Of all the commands G-d gives in the Torah, the one to conduct a census, a seemingly purposeless task, expresses His love for us, His children the most.

The other commandments say: “I love you, therefore I command you to love your neighbor, to honor your parents, to be honest citizens…”

This one says: “I love you.” Period.

G-d loves you.

Each and every one of you. YOU COUNT.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Fishel & Ettie Zaklos

Celebrate Shavuot with Chabad of Naples family

Thu, 21 May 2026 2:49:00 PM

Tomorrow, Shavuot (Friday, May 22) is a VERY BIG DAY.

12:30 PM Reading of the Ten Commandments

1:00 PM Dairy Buffet

Dear Friends,

As Shavuot approaches, we're reminded of the profound significance of this holiday, when we commemorate the giving of the Torah on Mount Sinai. But why was Sinai chosen above all other mountains? The answer lies in its modest stature. Humility, we are taught, is a prerequisite for delving into the teachings of the Torah.

Yet, if humility is paramount, why not give the Torah on level ground or in a valley?

The answer lies in the delicate balance between humility and pride. While humility is crucial, so too is a healthy sense of Jewish pride. We should never allow ourselves to adopt a victim mentality or define our Jewish identity solely in opposition to the hatred of others.

We are not merely anti-anti-Semites; we are a people chosen by G-d to illuminate the world with our values and teachings. Being part of the Jewish people should fill us with immense pride. So let us walk tall, not out of arrogance, but as emissaries of the divine, ambassadors of the richness of Jewish tradition and values to the world.

The Jewish mission is alive and well and we're celebrating it tomorrow. Stand shoulder to shoulder with the Jewish nation as we recommit to the eternal vision of the Torah this Shavuot.

It's considered especially important and powerful, in terms of potent blessings and inspiration, to be in the synagogue while the TEN COMMANDMENTS are read. The Rebbe of righteous memory encouraged even infants to attend for the reading.

Join us on the first day of Shavuot, Friday, May 22 at 12:30 pm for the reading of the Ten Commandments, followed by a Delicious Dairy Buffet and Cheesecake/Ice Cream Party. (For the full holiday schedule, see below).

A great kids program led by Chaya and Hinda Zaklos is planned, complete with goodies and prizes.

RSVP at this link! We hope you will join us to celebrate this joyous holiday as a community!

Chag Someach, we hope to see you!

Rabbi Fishel & Ettie Zaklos

SERVICE TIMES

Friday May 22 – Shavuot Day 1

Shacharit: 10:00am

10 commandments Ice Cream & Dairy Buffet: 12:30pm

Saturday May 23 – Shavuot Day 2

Shacharit: 10:00am

Yizkor: 11:15am

Yizkor" memorial and prayers for the sick

The holiday of Shavuot is an especially auspicious time to recall loved ones who are no longer with us (the "Yizkor" memorial prayer). In addition, after the reading of the Ten Commandments, we will be reciting the “mi shebairach” prayer for the sick.

While it is not the same as doing so in person, you can send us any names you wish to be included as follows: Office@chabadnaples.com

Yizkor – Hebrew name and name of the father (if known)
Mi shebairach - Hebrew name and name of the mother (if known)

And may we all be blessed with His abundant goodness!!

Looking for peace in a noisy world?

Fri, 15 May 2026 3:10:00 PM

Dear Friends,

What do you picture when you think of the desert? Endless amounts of nothingness? A hot, oppressive environment where most living things cannot thrive?

The Torah paints a different picture of the desert, and there are two significant points in particular I'd like to highlight.

The Torah portion "Bamidbar" is always read on the Shabbat before Shavuot (this Friday and Shabbat). "Bamidbar" literally means “in the desert.” While the desert is a hot place replete with sand, it is also a place of silence, free from visual and auditory distractions.

Silence is often conflated with quiet. How many times were we told by our teachers, or did we tell our own children, to be quiet? But quiet is merely the absence of sound. Silence is full of its own virtue.

When we are silent, we are able to tap into the essence at our core, and to truly listen to the divine whisperings that shape our traditions and practice. Our holy sages said “Silence is a fence to wisdom," and silence accompanied the priests' service in the Temple. The Amidah, the most profound daily prayer, is also said silently.

The famous Shema Yisroel alludes to this truth. There is no sufficient English equivalent for the layers contained within the Hebrew verb SH-M-A in its wide range of senses: to listen, to hear, to pay attention, to understand, to internalize and to respond with our actions.

At Sinai, the Jewish people said, “All that God says, we will do and we will hear.” Listening is crucial to faith, enabling us to hear the music beneath the noise. In our noisy world, filled with constant information, much of it negative and these days frightening, we need moments of silence to hear the “still, small voice” of God, reminding us we are loved, heard, and embraced by God's everlasting arms. So let's escape the outside noise and come together at Chabad Naples, where everyone's voice counts!

There is another characteristic of the desert that illuminates why God chose to deliver the Torah in what most would call the middle of nowhere.

Just as the desert is wide open territory for everyone to take advantage of and make their own, the Torah was given to the Jewish people in order for each and every one of us to make it our own, by delving into it and discovering its beauty and inner secrets.

No one person can claim ownership of the Torah; it belongs to every Jew equally. That's why this Torah portion is always read the week prior to the holiday of Shavuot, when we celebrate the anniversary of the Jewish people receiving the Torah on Mt. Sinai. It's also why the Torah was given to the Jews specifically in the desert.

Everyone gathers together and receives the Torah at his or her own level. Each year, it is as if we are receiving the Torah anew for the first time!

So this year, what deserts are you facing in your personal life? That which may feel like a lack can really be an opening for change. A space ripe for self reflection. A chance to take ownership of the Torah in a fresh and personal way.

It's no coincidence that the Torah is compared to water. For when you've been wandering in the desert for a long time, you desperately need a drink. (And of course, you need a delicious dairy buffet lunch as well!) Each of us is poised to receive that which quenches not merely our physical thirst, but our spiritual thirst as well.

Come receive the Torah with us next week at our community Shavuot celebration. We can't wait to see everyone there!

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Fishel and Ettie Zaklos

The Gift of Gathering Together

Fri, 8 May 2026 1:47:00 PM

Dear Friends,

Nearly 250 people joined us for our Lag B'Omer barbecue, and we are still riding the wave of positive energy. Roberto and Thais outdid themselves once again with their incomparable hospitality. The music was vibrant, the food was delicious, and the smiles were beaming from every corner. Over and over people came up to us and said, "Thank you Rabbi and Ettie. We really needed this."

But what exactly did they need? A hot dog? A cool drink? A great burger? Far from it. Any of the individual components of the celebration could have been procured on their own — although nothing quite on the level of the Chabad Naples burgers (thank you Peter and Eric for their expert grilling). It's the togetherness they needed. That's what we all need. And that's the X factor of a community gathering. That's the meaning behind the expression "the whole is greater than the sum of its parts." That's the je ne sais quoi of being part of something bigger than yourself, yet knowing deep down that you are an integral part of that whole.

The Torah portion this week says, "v'chi yamuch achicha… vehechzakta bo." Meaning, if your brother or sister falls on hard times and reaches out their hand, you should strengthen them. This goes far beyond making sure their material needs are met. Firstly, recognizing them as your brother or sister — taking a moment to see them for who they really are: a precious soul cut from the same cloth as your own. This infuses any help you give with dignity.

Secondly, giving them hope. Sparking joy, sharing a laugh. We are all in this crazy ride of life together, and the together is what makes it bearable. It's an appropriate lesson to draw from Lag B'Omer, as Rabbi Shimon Bar Yochai taught that Kabbalah is not meant to make us more mystical — it's meant to make us more real.

There is a story told about a devastating famine in Russia: A beggar, weak and starving, approached Leo Tolstoy for help. Tolstoy searched his pockets but found nothing. Instead, he took the man’s hand and said, “Don’t be angry with me, my brother. I have nothing with me.” The beggar’s face lit up and he replied, “But you called me ‘brother.’ That was the greatest gift you could give me.”

The Torah charges us this week to lift one another up. Everyone has something they can give. We may not all have deep pockets (although if you do, please give generously!), but we can all offer a kind word, a simple favor, a genuine smile, and a sincere “how are you really doing?”

How can you make someone feel seen? What needs to be healed? Where is God hiding? In the noise of modern life, how can you remind someone that we are in this together — that they were never meant to do it alone?

If you seek the opportunity to help others, you will find it. And you may hear for yourself: "Thank you. I really needed this."

The magical feeling we experienced on Lag B'Omer is a regular thing at Chabad Naples! Join us for our famous Shabbat service or one of our many programs, and mark your calendars for Shavuot, Friday, May 22, featuring a legendary dairy luncheon you won’t want to miss!

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Fishel and Ettie Zaklos

Lag B’Omer and the Strength to Start Over

Fri, 1 May 2026 2:16:00 PM

Dear Friends,

This Tuesday, to celebrate Lag B'Omer, we are hosting a big, beautiful community barbecue with fun for all ages.

But aside from an excuse to fire up the grill and crank the music, what is Lag B'Omer?

Well firstly, "lag" comes from the Hebrew letters lamed and gimmel, whose numeric value together add up to 33. Lag B'Omer is in fact the 33rd day of the Omer, which is the seven-week period of time between Passover and Shavuot — when we left Egypt to when we received the Torah.

But that's merely the technical answer! There were several major events that transpired on this date.

One involves Rabbi Akiva, who was a giant of Jewish history. He did not learn the Hebrew alphabet until he was 40 years old, and yet he became the teacher of thousands of illustrious Torah scholars. When a spiritual rift fractured the student body into two factions, a ravenous plague befell them. Lag B'Omer marks the day when the dying ceased.

He lost 24,000 students. 24,000 souls he had guided and nurtured, whose flames he had stoked, now extinguished! But Rabbi Akiva did not become hopeless. He did not give up or give in. When the last funeral concluded, when the last shiva was observed, on Lag Ba'Omer he found five new students and started again.

This is so significant for our own lives as well. We do feel the loss. We allow ourselves to grieve what was. But we are not meant to remain there. Like Rabbi Akiva, we carry the pain, and still choose to rise, to rebuild, to begin again. Not because the loss disappears, but because something within us refuses to let the story end there.

Says the Chida, a famous Torah commentator, Lag Ba'Omer is the celebration of never becoming hopeless or despondent. It is a day of tenacity and resilience. We are celebrating the strength and courage it takes to be true to our mission even after loss and tragedy.

Dr. Edith Eger, whose book The Choice I highly recommend if you haven't read it, returned her soul to its maker on Monday. We will remember her neshama and the light she brought into the world.

She survived Auschwitz and went on to become a therapist, author, and a source of strength to so many.

She carried unimaginable pain, but her message was always simple and powerful. We cannot choose what happens to us, but we can choose what we do next. Not “why me,” but “what now.” Not staying in what was broken, but slowly, courageously, choosing to rebuild and to move toward light.

We learn that joining in Lag B'Omer festivities brings protection and blessings to your family. So I can't wait to see you all on Tuesday! Sign up here.

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Fishel and Ettie Zaklos

Stop Fitting In. Start Living.

Fri, 24 Apr 2026 11:08:00 AM

Dear Friends,

They once asked a 104-year-old woman what was the advantage of living to this ripe age. She replied without hesitation: "No peer pressure!"

It sounds like the punchline to a joke, but it brings to light a very real and underutilized piece of wisdom. Don't let the voices of others be louder than your own inner voice.

Bronnie Ware worked for many years in palliative care. Her patients were those who had gone home to die. Some incredibly special times were shared during this unique period. She was with them for the last 3 to 12 weeks of their lives.

She wrote of her experience: “People grow a lot when they are faced with their own mortality... When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently, common themes surfaced again and again."

What was the first and most common regret of people at the end of their lives?

“I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.”

When people realize that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how much they never found the confidence to be fully present, fully alive, fully themselves, fully authentic. They were busy “fitting in,” searching maybe unconsciously for approval, putting up defenses, and displaying only their shell out of fear of how their true selves would be received.

We don’t even realize how so many of the decisions we make and the opinions we express are being formed and influenced by views and attitudes that are not inherently our own.

But how do we tune out the noise of modern life and turn up the volume of our inner voice? How do we repel outside influences in a world full of so-called influencers?

The answer is both simple and ancient. For a few minutes at the beginning of the day, bask in the solitude of your own presence. Yours and no one else's. Enjoy some silence. Let the only sound be the soundtrack of your thoughts.

No apps, no music, no headlines, no podcasts. Clear your mind, pray, meditate, and calibrate your consciousness to the frequency of your inner voice.

There is a fascinating verse in this week's Parsha. It describes the highlight of the Yom Kippur service, when the Kohen Gadol entered the “Kodesh Ha-Kadoshim,” the Holy of Holies, to offer up prayers and seek God's forgiveness on behalf of the entire Jewish nation.

“V’chol odom lo yihyeh — Let no man be in the Tent of Meeting [with the Kohen]… from the time he enters until he leaves." Nobody other than the High Priest was allowed entry into that chamber. He was praying there in complete solitude.

Thus the instruction: “Let no man enter with you!” It’s just you and God. What people out there think or feel about you is completely irrelevant. Just be yourself.

How often are we truly alone? Not only physically, but mentally. Not seeking from the endless supply of distractions at our fingertips, but dialing into our true selves. Communing with the Divine in what our mystics call “hisbodedus."

Nobody to impress. Just you, listening to your own inner voice, not getting lost in what the world thinks of you.

Friends, we need not wait until the end of our lives to be our authentic selves.

Who will join me in this challenge? Put your phone down for five minutes in the morning. Tune into who you are away from the influences of the world, so you can gather the strength and conviction to go out and conquer it.

This is what Shabbat is all about as well. Turn away from the distractions of everyday life and turn toward your family, your friends, your community. Connect with your soul. In a world where it is so easy to be influenced, influence others with your blessings and light.

Shabbat Shalom,

Rabbi Fishel Zaklos

What if Your Last Words were the Last They Heard?

Fri, 17 Apr 2026 1:28:00 PM

Dear Friends,

They say a picture is worth a thousand words. Now that may be the case in terms of description. When describing an adorable smiling baby or an early morning sunrise over the beach, words pale in comparison to the visual representation.

But a beautiful relationship can easily be tarnished or even destroyed with a few ugly or poorly chosen words. This week’s Parsha, Tazria-Metsorah, illustrates for us that words hold within them a great power. So much so that even the entire universe was created with only a few Divine utterances.

There is a famous story that Ben Zander, the well-known conductor of the Boston Philharmonic Orchestra, passed on after hearing it directly from an Auschwitz survivor that expresses this point

A girl was sent to Auschwitz when she was 15 years old, and her brother was eight. Their parents were lost. Years later, having survived the camp, she told Zander:

“We were in the train going to Auschwitz, and I looked down and saw my brother’s shoes were missing. I got angry and said, ‘Why are you so stupid, can’t you keep your things together for goodness’ sake?’” — the way an elder sister might sometimes speak thoughtlessly to a younger brother.

Unfortunately, it was the last thing she ever said to him, because she never saw him again. He did not survive. And so when she came out of Auschwitz, she made a vow:

“I will never say anything that couldn’t stand as the last thing I ever say.”

Now this may be an extreme example, but it hammers home the importance of being intentional with our speech—of lifting up those around us with our words, rather than tearing them down.

This week, as we do every week in our hearts, we honored the more than six million souls who were murdered during the Holocaust, and we will do so this Shabbat at Chabad of Naples by taking out a Sefer Torah that survived. Indeed, the Torah itself is but a collection of words, yet it is these words that guide our way of life and preserve our traditions.

We must consider the words that come out of our mouths. How often do we speak without thinking? Most of us receive many compliments and pleasantries from the ones we love regularly, and yet if a stranger is rude to you in line for coffee, it can ruin your whole day.

This is not a coincidence. The Gottlieb Institute discovered that for every negative interaction, it takes five positive ones to return to emotional equilibrium.

Your words are perhaps the most underutilized power you have for making the world a better place. And you can start right now! Tell your spouse how happy you are to have them in your life, tell your children how proud of them you are, tell your neighbor how much you admire their hydrangeas, tell the postman thank you for delivering your mail. None of these are small acts. They are strategic victories in the battle against negativity and darkness.

Join us this Shabbat for our famous services and Kiddush luncheon, where people often share that they leave feeling uplifted and strengthened, not only from the prayers and the words from the bimah, but from the warmth of being together and the way words are shared between us.

Let’s use the power of words to uplift one another and fill our community with peace, blessing, and light—more than any picture could capture.

Wishing you a peaceful and uplifting Shabbat,

Rabbi Fishel & Ettie Zaklos

HONOR THE 6 MILLION

Fri, 17 Apr 2026 12:55:00 PM

Dear Friends,

We remember and pay tribute to the six million “kedoshim.”

We remember what happens when hate takes hold of the human heart and turns it to stone, what happens when victims cry for help and no one is listening, and what happens when humanity fails to recognize that every person is created in God’s image.

We remember and give thanks for the righteous of the nations who saved lives at risk of their own, teaching us how, in the darkest night, we can light a candle of hope.

And we remember that the past is not only history. Even in our own time, most painfully on October 7, we are reminded why memory matters and why “never again” must be lived, not just said.

We pray for worldwide peace and understanding, that no one should ever face this horror again. I know the 6 million will be praying along with us from On High; I also know Hashem will answer our prayers.

Honor their memory with a special mitzvah, today and every day.

May the memory of the six million be blessed.

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This Shabbat, we will read from the Holocaust Torah that was dedicated to Chabad of Naples in January 2012.

Who can forget when we dedicated our beautiful Chabad of Naples campus, with people of all ages—young and old—singing and rejoicing? And then, the highlight of the dedication: receiving the Holocaust Torah.

Mixed feelings? To say the least.
Joy and sorrow—joy for all that survived, and sorrow for our losses—and there were many.

That this Torah survived and came into our hands, reborn through the generosity of Ellen Ann Goldman, Sam Savage, and the Federman Family, is nothing short of a miracle.

We have become the stewards of a valuable piece of history, and with that, we are responsible to the donors who entrusted it to us, saying, “It is in good hands at Chabad of Naples.”

Now, in this climate, it’s more important than ever to teach our children—in age-appropriate ways—about the sacrifice and heroism of the six million Jewish men, women, and children who were slaughtered in the Holocaust. We must help them understand what was lost, and even more, what must endure.

Let’s pass on this message of resilience, showing our children how to honor their memory by taking an active part in building the Jewish nation and being a strong, unbreakable link in our eternal chain.

Let’s take the time to pause and reflect, and inspire each other to more involvement, to ensure that “never again” does not become a mere slogan (Heaven forbid).

We pray for worldwide peace and understanding, that no one should ever face this horror again. I know the 6 million will be praying along with us from On High—I also know Hashem will answer our prayers.

May the memory of the six million be blessed.

Shabbat Shalom!

Rabbi Fishel & Ettie Zaklos

A Message of Hope for Today

Tue, 7 Apr 2026 12:00:00 PM

Dear Friends,

We hope your Pesach was beautiful, inspiring, and filling in both body and spirit.

Thank God at Chabad of Naples we were blessed with so many beautiful people joining us together for our BIG Family Seder, well attended services, and many Yom Tov meals together sharing words of Torah, song and celebration.

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As we approach the final days of the festival, here’s a powerful reminder rooted in our earliest history.

When G-d promised Abraham and Sarah a child, it seemed completely impossible. They were old, long past the age of parenthood. But then G-d took Abraham outside and said: “Look up at the sky and count the stars, if you can. So shall your descendants be.”

Now pause and imagine that moment. Faced with a sky full of stars, Abraham could’ve laughed. He could’ve walked back inside. He could’ve said, “This is ridiculous.”

But he didn’t.

He looked up and he began counting.

One. Two. Three…

In response, G-d said:

“כֹּה יִהְיֶה זַרְעֶךָ — So shall your children be.”

Not just as numerous as the stars, but like Abraham himself: the kind of people who begin counting, even when the task seems impossible.

That has always been the spirit of the Jewish people. In every generation we end the Seder with the words: “לשָׁנָה הַבָּאָה בִּירוּשָׁלָיִם — Next year in Jerusalem.”

This wasn’t just a hope; it was a declaration, a commitment to making the impossible possible. And then, miraculously, the dream that seemed so far away was realized. The stars were counted.

As we head towards the final days of Pesach, and ask for our final redemption remember: impossible is just an idea. Inside it lives a promise: I’M POSSIBLE.

Keep counting. Keep believing. We are the children of Abraham and Sarah.

And we must keep believing—not just in the promises of the past, but in the hope of today. In the face of darkness, in the face of what feels impossible, we must hold onto faith and action. Just as Abraham looked up and began to count the stars, we must continue to count every soul, every prayer, every act of courage, and never give up hope.

Chag Sameach!

Rabbi Fishel & Ettie Zaklos

I Miss You Yossi

Tue, 7 Apr 2026 11:30:00 AM

I miss you my beloved brother Yossi.

Tonight, which ushers in the seventh day of Pesach, is 29 years since my brother Yossi's passing. Even as I write this I have a hard time believing it’s been so long. Your presence still plays a very real, vivid, and tangible role in my life – not as a figure from my childhood, but as an old soul; an ever-inspiring presence; a big brother to me and so many others in the truest sense. Your passion and principles inspire me every single day to be the best that I can be.

Tonight commemorates the splitting of the red sea- Yossi, too, seemed to split obstacles, going through them to get to the other side, accomplishing his goals. He dived right into whatever he attempted and gave it his all, fully and with no restrictions. He grabbed life with both hands and LIVED it. And he ALWAYS maintained a positive, upbeat attitude, even in the years during his aggressive treatments in Sloan Kettering. I was his caretaker for two years and I never saw his infectious positivity waver for a second.

Yossi lived for others, caring especially for those who are often ignored. He was selfless and always sensitive to those around him. He did things because it was right and wanting to be of service to G-d and to fulfill his dear Mentor the Rebbe’s calling. I know it sounds like a cliché, but I can tell you this wasn’t an occasional occurrence. Yossi had a courageous and fearless nature, and at the same time, he was the sweetest soul.

One of his many aspirations that he so deeply desired was establishing a Chabad House. He would often talk dreamily about how one day he wanted to reach out to a community to create a warm and loving place, and as he visited various Chabad centers for Shabbat or events I would hear his ideas develop.

While he was unable to follow that dream personally, I know that it is with his blessings that I am privileged to be his hands and feet in the work that Ettie and I are doing at Chabad of Naples, together with our children—how I wish you could have met them! Yossi, I know if you were here you would be leading an army of light to fight against the darkness so many of us feel today. May we take up the charge in your absence and join forces with the battle you are undoubtedly fighting on our behalf on high.

I miss you my beloved Yossi! You made me a better person, a more real person. Your life was too short, and I miss you terribly, but we will continue to try to incorporate what you taught me from the precious, abbreviated days we spent together. A legacy of pure goodness.

You are forever in our hearts, minds, and actions. To anyone else who has experienced the deep and life-altering loss of a loved one, know that I see you. But also know that the good we do here on earth in their memory helps us connect to them, find a tiny gleaming flicker of solace, and gladdens their soul up above.

If you can, please do some mitzvah — a good deed in Yossi’s honor. I have no doubt that he is advocating for us in the heavens for an end to pain and suffering for all. Let’s do our part to spread kindness and light!

Forever your younger brother,

Fishey

Thanks to our incredible family: yes, our Naples/ Marco Mishpacha

Wed, 1 Apr 2026 10:39:00 AM

Dear Friends,

As the holiday of Passover descends upon us, Ettie, Mendel, Yitzi, Chaya and Hinda join me in wishing you and yours a truly joyful Passover holiday.

We are thinking of family and friends far and near and wishing you a very special holiday full of quality time and traditional experiences, creating lifelong memories with family and friends.

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Our homes will soon be filled with the sounds, aromas and traditions of the Seder table. Families will gather, children will ask the Four Questions, and we will once again retell the story that has shaped our people for more than three thousand years.

We are pleased to present this year’s Pesach journal, with inspiring articles exploring the magic of matzah, the powerful women of Jewish history, the benefits of Shabbos, and even a Duolingo lesson. We hope these insights provide you with “gold nuggets” of Jewish wisdom for a more spiritual and renewed Pesach.

Here at Chabad Naples, we are witnessing a renewed thirst for connection, learning, and spiritual meaning. Shabbat services continue to grow, events are filled to capacity, and classes are thriving.

We hope you will continue to grow, learn, strengthen our faith in Hashem, and pass on our story to the next generation. This is the Jewish way.

The Haggadah teaches us: “In every generation, a person must see themselves as if they personally left Egypt.”

Every generation faces its own “Egypts” — its own challenges, fears and moments of uncertainty. And every generation must rediscover its own courage, faith, and determination.

Pesach reminds us that empires rise and fall. Tyrants come and go. The Pharaohs and Ayatollahs eventually pass into history. But the Jewish people prevail. Because through it all, we never lose faith in the promise that guides us — Hashem’s promise that He will always stand with us.

That promise comes alive during one of the most powerful moments of the Seder, when we sing the words V’hi She’amda:

“In every generation there are those who rise against us to destroy us, but the Holy One, Blessed be He, saves us from their hand.”

The Jewish story continues. A story of faith. A story of light that no darkness can ever extinguish. This is the power of Pesach.

As we gather around our Seder tables this year, may we feel the strength of our past, the blessing of our present, and the promise of our future. And may we merit to celebrate next year together in a world filled with Shalom.

L’Shana Haba’ah B’Yerushalayim. Next Year in Jerusalem!

From our family to yours — Chag Pesach Sameach.

Rabbi Fishel and Ettie Zaklos

Thoughts I Had While Packing 800 Boxes of Matzah

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 1:53:00 PM

Dear Friends,

Every year ahead of Passover, a group of us gather together to pack matzah and other holiday essentials for delivery across our community. This year we had a dedicated team of volunteers answer the call to assemble 800 of these care packages (with nearly 1,000 being distributed in total)!

As we were getting into the rhythm that comes with repetitive activity, my thoughts drifted toward the Seder and the Haggadah. Although I've read it many times in my life, one of the beginning passages suddenly struck me as odd.

We begin by saying, “Our ancestors started out as idol worshippers, but now God has brought us near to serve Him.”

That's how we are going to start our Passover Seder? By insulting our parents? Why do we say this?

The answer is that it teaches us an important lesson about our worth. It doesn't matter where you came from, how lowly your origin story. What matters is where you're going. It matters who you choose to be today, in this moment.

The Lubavitcher Rebbe, whose 124th birthday will be on Sunday, spoke about this. Passover, by all accounts, is the most observed Jewish holiday in our times. Many Jews who are sitting around the Seder are inspired by the sanctity and majesty of the evening. But what troubles some of our brothers and sisters is the fear that they have discovered Judaism too late and now it is too difficult to reshape their lives to the noble purposes of our faith and to live Jewishly.

The Haggadah’s response is: “Don’t despair. Know that your predicament is no different from that of our people as a whole.”

“In the beginning our ancestors were idol worshippers.” However, “now God has brought us close to His service.”

The whole story of the Jewish people is one of rising from the very bottom, of emerging from the lowest depths. The Rebbe taught us over and over again that we are all valuable simply because of who we are. It's an idea that was instilled deeply within myself and Ettie, and it informs the way we serve our community each and every day.

Any Jew who is inspired by doing a mitzvah or learning about their heritage today, regardless of level of background, encapsulates our entire Jewish history, and is merely reclaiming their birthright and identity.

You can never be truly separated from your own essence, or a stranger within your own family.

And Chabad Naples is such a family! This is what struck me as we packed those boxes of matzah. Why do we do it? Why invest the time, the energy, the resources? Because each and every one of us is mishpacha. Family.

We encourage you to join us for Passover services and lunches. If you or anyone you know needs matzah, please reach out. (If you’re waiting on yours, it may take a few days to reach you!)

The stories of Jewish victory start in darkness and end in light. In the Haggadah, in the Torah, throughout Jewish history. When we look around the world today, it can be easy to see darkness, but we must remember that the story is not over.

The story ends with light — and we are the creators of that light.

So think about who you want to be in this moment, during this holiday. How can you answer the call to help your fellow have a more joyous Passover?

Shabbat Shalom and wishing all a Happy and Kosher Pesach,

Rabbi Fishel and Ettie Zaklos

Keeping Perspective

Thu, 19 Mar 2026 10:14:00 AM

Dear Friends,

There is a moment at every Passover Seder when you can feel it tick over into a story of redemption, not oppression. When the detailed accountings of the suffering of our people give way to the exuberant declarations of miracle after miracle, culminating in our escape from slavery. After all the cleaning and cooking, the matzah and maror, the several glasses of wine, the shift feels appropriately earned.

But I have been wondering lately about the people sitting at that table who cannot quite feel it. The people whose personal oppressions are too heavy or intense to let them tap into their sense of redemption. Someone’s marriage is quietly unraveling. Someone got a phone call from the doctor last week that sucked the color out of their world. Someone is still nursing a deep wound from years ago that never fully healed. They are saying the same words, eating the same matzah, but the joy feels like it belongs to a different table entirely.

The people who walked out of Egypt 3,300 years ago were in that same condition. The Exodus was the most dramatic national moment in our history: the sea splitting, the slavery ending, the impossible becoming real. And they were exhausted. Someone’s back hurt from decades of physical labor. Someone had just buried a parent in a land they were leaving forever. Someone was terrified rather than relieved, because freedom is frightening when you have never known it. The miracle was real — and the exhaustion was equally real. Both of those things were true at the same time, in the same body, on the same afternoon.

The Haggadah tells us that in every generation we are obligated to see ourselves as if we personally left Egypt. For most of my life I understood that as an instruction about gratitude only. I understand it a bit deeper now. It is asking us to locate ourselves inside a story that is still unfolding, to feel its weight and its momentum, even when we are tired, even when we are grieving, even when the personal circumstances of our lives make celebration feel like a performance we have not rehearsed.

We need to hold the bigger picture of the incredible things happening around us even while honoring our struggles and pain.

We are living through an extraordinary moment in Jewish history. Since October 7th, 2023, we have watched our people attacked with a savagery that reached back across centuries. And then we watched something that few predicted: Israel dismantling Hezbollah’s command, decimating Hamas, striking inside Iran itself. A tiny country, surrounded, grieving, and somehow still standing with a strength that has left the world struggling to explain it. Israel is teaching the world what it means to live and fight with conviction.

We have also watched Jews who had set their identity down somewhere along the way pick it back up with both hands. Pull up a chair at the Seder table for the first time in years. The bigger story is very much alive, tumbling forward with a force that is bringing us closer to our better selves.

And so we sit at the Seder. We say the ancient words. We hold the matzah, which is simultaneously the bread of affliction and the bread of freedom. It is the food we were forced to eat as slaves and it is the food we hastily packed up and brought with us on our miraculous journey of liberation. The same object carrying both meanings at once. Maybe that is the point. We can feel the pain in our lives and still celebrate the great moments we are living through.

We bring whatever we are carrying this year and we say: We are still here. After everything. Still here.

And next year will be even better: Because next year in Jerusalem.

Shabbat Shalom and Chag Pesach Sameach to you and everyone you love.

Rabbi Fishel and Ettie Zaklos