Dear Friends,
This past Wednesday, we once again faced the difficult question: Where were you on September 11, 2001?
On this 23rd year since 9/11, I can’t help but recall where I was when I heard the news (Chicago Yeshiva) and my reaction of shock. What stays with me is how, in the days following, New Yorkers—and Americans—seemed a little kinder, a little less hurried. There was a shared sense of grief and unity, with people becoming more open and compassionate in their interactions.
But the question goes beyond geography. Where were you emotionally? Where were we as a society? And, more importantly, where are we now?
There’s a story of Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, the first Chabad Rebbe, who was asked why G-d asked Adam, “Where are you?” in the Garden of Eden. The Alter Rebbe explained that "Ayekah—where are you?" is a timeless question. It asks, "Where are you in your life? What have you accomplished with the time you’ve been given?"
As we reflect on September 11, let’s ask, "Where are we now?" Have we grown? My challenge to you—and myself—is to rekindle that sense of kindness, starting with our families and extending outward. Let’s practice random acts of kindness Let’s practice random acts of kindness, be a little more open, a little more patient, and a little more understanding of others. Together, we can heal ourselves and the world, one step at a time. What greater tribute can we offer on 9/11?
Let us never forget the heroism of those who survived, those who saved others, and those who gave their lives. We stand together in unity and friendship to honor them.
Let us honor the memory of those we lost by living with purpose and determination. If a handful of terrorists could turn our world upside down, let us never underestimate the power within each of us to turn it upright again.
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Fishel & Ettie